Online hookups are getting popular these days despite working under the radar but though it may be full of fun and wonders, you too should also know how to do it correctly. Otherwise you may have wished you didn’t dare involve yourself with such acts.
Choose an online hookup site that matches your mood and personality, there are a lot of sites to choose from and each one is different. Join one that matches your style.
Know that you are In Charge.
It is not necessary that you answer everyone online who approaches you but remember to finish the chats you started. When meeting in person, know very well that you can end the sex at anytime and for any possible reason. Be confident and trust your gut, sometimes the phrase “Sorry, this just isn’t working for me” can do the trick.
Don’t forget backups.
A condom in the pocket is a must, if it’s for you and it wouldn’t hurt to bring a few more in case the first one breaks. But if you’re two guys then maybe you may need more, in different sizes and types, the other guy may be allergic to latex so bring polyurethane condoms. If it’s a girl you’re meeting then bring a condom for women.
Get yourself checked out every now and then.
For people who hookup online a lot getting checked up should also be as often as hooking up. You can do this every couple of months or every dozen or so guys. Being safe should always be a priority.
Protect your photos.
Your photos should be tagged either by a watermark or by marking them with your screen name or email address. This will eliminate the possibility of your photo being boosted. Most computers have photo editing programs, just select the type tool and you should be good.
Be direct.
Being direct is one of the shortcuts to success that you should know. If smoking, drugs, raw sex or anything turns you off then say so in chat or your profile. Mention any deal-breakers upfront. Backing out isn’t cool especially once you’ve agreed to hook up already. Remember it’s game playing and nothing serious but you should also be honest and be direct.
Hopefully these tips will make online hookups for you easy and safe. Just remember that you should be in control of your body. Respect is still necessary even if you are not going to meet again.
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